Review: Awakening by Elene Sallinger

November 11, 2013 Books, Reading, Reviews 0 ★★★½

Review: Awakening by Elene SallingerAwakening by Elene Sallinger
three-half-stars
River Rock, Vermont, 2011. This is the story of Claire Ryan and Evan Lang. 35-year-old Claire joins a local book club for romance readers in order to get over the breakdown of her 10-year relationship, there she meets book shop owner Evan, a dominant man who has never recovered from the sudden death of his submissive wife.

As their relationship develops and they embark on the path of Claire’s submission, it becomes harder and harder for Evan to keep his emotional distance. Claire is open and responsive and he wants her badly, but refuses to let himself go.

As Claire falls deeper in love with Evan, she realises that he is holding back and decides to end their relationship, forcing Evan to confront his own past and his feelings in order to save his new love.

Winner of the new writing competition at the Festival of Romance 2011.
Series: The Chrysalis Series #1
Published by Sourcebooks Casablanca on 5 November 2013
Genres: BDSM Erotica, Erotica
Pages: 224
Format: eARC
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I received this book for free from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. This does not affect my opinion of the book nor the content of my review.

This book contains potentially triggering material. You can find details of potential triggers at the end of this review.

As a quick note before I get started with my actual review, I’ve noticed a lot of reviews say this isn’t your typical BDSM story because, basically, it’s not 50 Shades of Grey. Well… this should be the typical BDSM romance, because 50 Shades of Grey is an absolutely terrible portrayal of BDSM, and it’s giving readers very wrong ideas about what BDSM actually entails. So please, read this instead of 50 Shades if you want to know what a healthier BDSM relationship should be like.

That out of the way, let’s get down to the review.  I’ve personally not read a whole lot of BDSM erotic romances, or at least not the published kind.  I have read (and written) a lot of fanfiction that deals with characters in dom/sub situations and sexual relationships, and I wanted to branch out and see the stuff that’s being published in the erotic romance publishing world.

I liked Awakening pretty well; it portrays a relatively healthy version of BDSM with two characters who are working out their own psychological and trust issues through their burgeoning relationship.  The book is not without its flaws, though, particularly in the male lead, Evan’s personal issues and how those come out in relation to Claire, the female lead.

Claire Ryan has just come out of a long, abusive relationship, and she’s torn between wanting to experience life outside of her old world and being deathly afraid of putting herself out there.  This leads me to the potential trigger in this novel: Claire’s former relationship was abusive.  She would provoke her ex into hitting her to satisfy her desire to be struck.  If you’re uncomfortable with reading about physical abuse, be careful with this book.

I actually liked Claire quite a bit, and I like how she’s written as slowly coming out of her self-constructed cocoon of fear and introversion.  She makes friends, starts to be social, even reaches out to her estranged brother.  But the one stumbling stone in her way is Evan Lang.

Evan is a widower who owns the bookstore that Claire enjoys visiting, and Claire finds herself deeply attracted to him.  For his part, Evan is attracted to her, too, but here’s where I started having a problem.  Evan still isn’t over the untimely death of his wife, and he’s basically turned himself into a monk when it comes to sex.  When he finds himself sexually attracted to Claire, he feels like he’s betraying his dead wife, and that’s totally understandable.  What bothered me as a reader was how he turns his feelings of anger and betrayal outward, aiming them right at Claire.  He’s cold and abrupt with her, and it really throws Claire for a loop since he’s friendly with everyone else.

Now, that’s completely understandable.  For a while, that is.  But for me, Evan went on with his jerky behavior for long enough that it made me really uncomfortable. He even gets horribly jealous when he sees her out with her brother and acts like he is already her dom when he’s barely even spoken to her.  View Spoiler »

But in terms of the way BDSM is dealt with, this book does quite a good job with presenting how it should work.  There are no contracts, just a little hint of creepy/stalkery behavior, and there is absolutely no abuse.  They sit down and talk about what will go on in their relationship, what being a dom and being a sub actually means, and Claire comes to understand that as a sub, she will be the one who is actually in control of the relationship.  As a dom, Evan functions as the guy with the flogger and a therapist of sorts, trying to discover what makes Claire tick and help her come to terms with her desire to be spanked.

Awakening isn’t the perfect BDSM romance, but it is definitely sexy and it definitely presents a much healthier and more accurate version of BDSM than the E.L. James novels.  If you’re looking to read more BDSM romance, this is definitely a good start.